ever take a moment to enjoy how good it feels when the sun first shows its face after a long bout of rain showers? as i sit in the house after another day of 'social distancing' feeling out of sorts as a result, the sun just started beaming.
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We Live In A Prison
so in the midst of the current pandemic my mind has really been going to some next level sh#@! if i wasn't already feel this way, i really am now. in the wake of all of this time in solitary confinement i've gained so much clarity about life. in fact, for the first time i can say that i truly see life for exactly what it is, a detention center. let me explain.
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L-O-V-E And I Be
it’s all about love… l-o-v-e and i be… LOVE ya’ll!!! so i was just thinking about this deep thing called love. its funny that we’re are always trying to define this phenomenon. we’re always trying to describe it with words and whatnot. lol.
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How We Value Trust As Sacred
we trust that our loved ones have our best interest at heart. we trust the clerk on the phone with our social security number. we trust that our lover has good intentions. we trust that we won’t come to work to a pink slip. we trust that our spouse will be faithful. when rock climbing we trust that the rope is secure and will not give. each day we put our trust in so many people and things and amazingly enough we do so with considerable ease. we’re pretty trusting beings. ever stopped to ponder why????
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Relationships Are Our Children
as a mother i find that even outside of my children i am often playing a mother role. specifically in relationships. why??? because relationships are child-like entities that we co-create with our partners.
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The Illusion Of Trying
so i know that at some point in our lives we’ve all heard the saying, “never give up, keep trying.” however, what does that really say to us and how do we really process that phrase? let’s see…. one definition of “trying” is… straining one’s patience and goodwill to the limit. now i don’t know about you, but to me that doesn’t sound like anything that i want to do, especially to the end of actually achieving something. so why are we always trying rather than doing?
