i was gonna get rid of those things if it was the last thing i did. heck, this was war! so i broke out the shears and did a full head trim. i’m proud to say that i am now split end free! whew!!! but then being the scientist that i am i had to decode the situation. i thought… hmmph… split ends… what are those pesty things anyway? where the hell do they come from and why the hell was my head packed with them????
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L-O-V-E And I Be
it’s all about love… l-o-v-e and i be… LOVE ya’ll!!! so i was just thinking about this deep thing called love. its funny that we’re are always trying to define this phenomenon. we’re always trying to describe it with words and whatnot. lol.
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How We Value Trust As Sacred
we trust that our loved ones have our best interest at heart. we trust the clerk on the phone with our social security number. we trust that our lover has good intentions. we trust that we won’t come to work to a pink slip. we trust that our spouse will be faithful. when rock climbing we trust that the rope is secure and will not give. each day we put our trust in so many people and things and amazingly enough we do so with considerable ease. we’re pretty trusting beings. ever stopped to ponder why????
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Relationships Are Our Children
as a mother i find that even outside of my children i am often playing a mother role. specifically in relationships. why??? because relationships are child-like entities that we co-create with our partners.
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The Illusion Of Trying
so i know that at some point in our lives we’ve all heard the saying, “never give up, keep trying.” however, what does that really say to us and how do we really process that phrase? let’s see…. one definition of “trying” is… straining one’s patience and goodwill to the limit. now i don’t know about you, but to me that doesn’t sound like anything that i want to do, especially to the end of actually achieving something. so why are we always trying rather than doing?
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Why Is Saying I Love You So Damn Hard
i love you guys and gals!!!! wow that was easy! now why is it so hard to say it in more intimate settings??? these are probably the 3 most simplest, most meaningful words in the history of man yet the most difficult to say aloud. we think it, we dream about it, we write it in cards and letters, we enjoy hearing it in songs, seeing it in movies and reading about it in books, yet we just can’t get up the nerve to say it aloud half the time. why is this?
