Privet! (Hello in Russian) to all my sunny peeps!!! let’s discuss how to handle being surrounded by people who don’t believe in you…
so today i was having a convo with a family member discussing a dilemma that i’m currently having that really started to go sour because based on what they were saying i really started to feel like they didn’t believe in me. of course, then self doubt saw an opportunity and started to creep in and the next thing you know i was taking a trip around the world of ‘woe is me’ with this thing.
then i started to make mental notes of all the other people around me who just didn’t believe in me and all the reasons why. but then i had to immediately pump the breaks and coach myself back to sanity. what i realized was that it hasn’t been the people around who have been short on belief in me, it’s been me! for one thing, if i believed in myself i wouldn’t have been having the convo to begin with.
next, if people aren’t believing in me its because energetically that’s the vibe they’re getting from me. so in the end i realize that when i’m surrounded by people who don’t believe in me the thing to do is…. BELIEVE IN ME!!! LOL!! i know so genius, right but really, i’ve got to be a better saleswoman for myself and believe in the product that i’m selling (looks like its time for another product review of me, ha ha!).
i’ve got to dump the doubt and uncertainty. i’ve got to get naked, look at myself in the mirror and tell the beautiful girl staring back that i believe in you whole-heartedly. i’ve got to raise the energetic frequency of confidence, self-assurance, success. i’ve got to raise up the goddess that is me because she is undoubtedly the best of the best! she is bad ass! she is fire! SHE IS!!! with that said, i gotta run cause as you can read i’ve got lots of work to do! success is not for the lazy!
what about you? how do you handle it when you’re surrounded by people who don’t believe in you?
sunflower smooches!