Koali (hello in Bremnian) Lovies!!!
i love you guys and gals!!!! wow that was easy! now why is it so hard to say it in more intimate settings??? when it’s your significant other why the hell is saying i love you so damn hard?
these are probably the 3 most simplest, most meaningful words in the history of man yet the most difficult to say aloud. we think it, we dream about it, we write it in cards and letters, we enjoy hearing it in songs, seeing it in movies and reading about it in books, yet we just can’t get up the nerve to say it aloud half the time. why is this?
for me, and probably lots of others, it may have something to do my perception of the person on the receiving end. i’ve held back from saying “i love you” for various reasons at various stages of my life. in relationships i’ve held back from saying it out of fear that the other person didn’t feel the same way or wouldn’t say it back or because i felt that doing so would then give them the upper hand. i’ve held back from saying it to family members, assuming that they should know that i feel that way.
i’ve even held back from saying it to myself because i honestly didn’t feel that way about myself at the time. the fact is that there have been several reasons that mostly exist outside of myself for my not saying those 3 most important words. yet when i reach deep within with an open heart i see that saying those 3 words replenishes my spirit. saying those 3 words soothes my mind. saying those 3 words gives me a feeling of bliss that no other words can conjure. saying those 3 words makes me want to live!
so when i release the fear and open my heart, saying those 3 words is healing to my mind, body and soul. thus, saying those 3 words is ultimately meant to empower me and is not so much all about the other person.
so in the end, what’s there to fear? i love you, i love you, i love you!!!
what about you? why do you thin saying i love you is so damn hard? when is the last time you said, “I LOVE YOU?” what are you waiting for???
Sunflower Smooches!!!
