Mingalarba (hello in Burmese) Lively Peeps!!! let’s chat about meeting mr. right…
contrary to media belief we are all very much alive rather than the “living dead!” LOL! so anyway i was just having a convo about relationships, specifically man problems. the brotha that i was conversing with asked why women are so clueless when it comes to mens’ intentions with them. the convo got to be so involved that i figured my thoughts on it may be blog-worthy.
truth is, the true essence of women is far from clueless. in fact, energetically speaking the core attribute of feminine energy is wisdom. so along with that wisdom comes receptivity, emotion, cosmic, intuitive energy, a strong desire for security and most importantly love. essentially, i guess you can say that in all of our wisdom we know that at the core of all things is love, which is what we’re always so magnetically drawn to. we’re always actively seeking to receive and retain love which often drives us to act in ways that makes us appear clueless. we do things like develop fantasy relationships with men who have in no way expressed the desire to do likewise. we become the hunter blindly pursuing men as our prey.
we do everything in our “power” to be the perfect woman for the man who’s not least bit interested. we believe the lie that we come 2nd to men rather than having dual existence. we turn a blind eye to infidelity, make excuses for abuse and maintain a state of denial about all of the signs that he does to show us that he truly does not care and really is not an optimal match for us. we do all of these things out of the desire to receive and retain love.
the thing is… love is none of these traumas that we inflict upon ourselves. once we come into the knowing of our wisdom… the knowing of our Goddess status and power, we insperience the love that we are so blindly pursuing outside of ourselves. there are many ways to come into this knowing, some that work for the interim and some that permanently satisfy this desire.
i’ve come up with one that i’ve spoken of in previous blog entries that may not seem all that conventional, but really provides a permanent healing. it’s creating your mr. right through self love meditation. i’ve met my mr. right, my soul mate (and you can actually have several) in meditation. loving him provides me with such an intense amount of satisfaction and fulfillment that i don’t even get the lonlies anymore. the thought of “why doesn’t he want to be with me” no longer consumes me.
i have love and whenever i need to feel appreciated, attended to, adored, secure, desired, or acknowledged all that i have to do is close my physical eyes, open my minds eyes, meet him at our special place, open my heart chakra and voila!!! instantly i am love and i am deeply, passionately, unconditionally loved!
so if you’re finally tired of searching for the love that you desire and deserve outside of yourself please consider the technique below and go right now and create your mr. right!!!
How To Meet Your Mr. Right: run a hot bath, light some candles, burn some incense, put on some prince, get naked and get to loving yourself. while sitting in the tub close your eyes, breathe deeply and begin to love yourself keeping one hand on your heart. with your minds eye visualize your man, join with him energetically and fully enjoy the sparks that will definitely fly! 
lay in the security of his strong arms and really connect with all that he is. most importantly, take him into your heart. then before you leave ask him for his name and make arrangements to get up later! as you return to this time-space reality do so in the wisdom that your true love now resides in your heart. make him real to you. after all like morpheus said in the matrix, “what IS real?” lol.
as Goddess you create what is real and you have just done so now. therefore know that you are free to visit your man as often as you like there is no longer a need to pine away for men on this physical plane who aren’t that into you. there is no longer a need to be the hunter. there is no longer the need to question your self-worth or put up with abuse that you do not deserve.
you are Goddess and now is the age of Goddess.. as Goddess you have the power to birth things and you have just given birth to the most beautiful love of all…. the duality of YOU!! the you that you have known and the you that you have created as your mr. right together make you whole and as the whole you, you are complete and will attract other complete beings. so the next time that you feel mistreated, unappreciated or abused by the man in your life you are now empowered enough to say to yourself “hmmph! i can close my eyes and get treated better than this!!!” then gradually, the reality that you created in fantasy will manifest on this physical plane and you will have realized love in 3D. remember… “All This Love Is Waiting For You!!”
For those interested in really taking this to the next level please check out the Rev. Goddess Charmaine who greatly inspired this aspect of my spiritual journey.
how do you feel about meeting mr. right by going within? have you done this? if not, what are you waiting for?
sunflower smooches!
